I have struggled with this term many times over my marriage. Generally it's when I'm angry. What the hell does happily married even mean- it's an oxymoron. I am happy and I am married. Am I happy because I am married? Well I am happy I found the only person in the world who can manage my big feelings. This came in time though, It's not like my husband came in a pre-wrapped package. I have no doubt it started with tolerance of my big feelings then acceptance and then.... we

So here it is. One phrase. The one distilled nugget of wisdom to come from my 19+ years...

If your kids have entered that wonderful stage of puberty/karma then you probably know how tricky this stage is...